There is no more instantly recognizable romantic gesture than when a man proposes a engagement ring on his knees and asks his beloved for the coveted yes. This custom has existed for centuries and remains popular even today.
Story behind the marriage proposal kneeling

There is no clear historical origin of the idea of ​​a kneeling marriage proposal, but the gesture bears a striking resemblance to many other ritual situations, such as:

    Religion: Kneeling is an appropriate escape during prayers and other religious ceremonies, including wedding vows for certain religions. When making a marriage proposal, a knee-jerk can have the same spiritual tone and can be seen as a sign of respect.
    Rights: Knights kneel while being honored by kings and queens. This can apply to a marriage proposal and can be considered an honor.
    Surrender: Bowing to a victorious enemy is usually considered a surrender gesture. When proposing, a couple commits to each other and surrenders to being part of a couple.

Regardless of the origin, the idea of ​​asking for the hand of a loved one while partially kneeling is a highly symbolic gesture that incorporates the very essence of dedicating your life to another. The ideas of goodwill, honor and confidence that one person is completely open to the other without shame or any natural defense.

The practical reason behind a proposal with bent knees is that it puts the engagement ring in a raised position between the couple, letting the light hit it clearly without being blocked by either person. This emphasizes the shine of the ring as well as the strength of the engagement.
Modern wedding proposals with bent knees

According to a study, 76 percent of men believe that they have to bend their knees to propose marriage. Many women find it attractive for a man to propose marriage on one knee. The message behind the gesture may be that the man offers himself wholeheartedly to the woman, without reservations, elevates her to a higher position in their relationship and offers her the option to determine the course of their relationship.

For some couples, the woman may be the one to propose and it is equally appropriate for her to bend her knee to the prospective groom, although such a gesture can make many men feel uncomfortable.
How to make the proposal
Select the place

The classic kneeling proposal often takes place in a romantic location such as:

    In the beach
    Outdoors under the stars
    In the West of the sun
    In a special restaurant

Consider offering a single stone ring

The ring can be placed in a velvet box raised on the man's chest or at eye level between the couple. While you wait for the perfect moment, keep the ring in your pocket, but make sure your puffy pocket is not noticeable if the proposal is intended for surprise.
Duration

The duration of the sentence is another concern: some men choose to express their intentions with a short speech or poem, and if the whole speech is done while you are on your knees it can become tedious and drawn, especially if the woman's attention is diverted next to the ring. .

On the other hand, a quick question while falling on one knee can be very short and catch the woman unnecessarily reluctant, although this type of spontaneous gesture can be just as romantic.
Make the Proposal
Romantic proposal

Follow these simple steps when suggesting:

    Get ready to kneel: Just before you kneel, it is important to check the surrounding area for a problematic landscape. If you are proposing on the beach, for example, it would not be pleasant to kneel in a puddle of water and sharp or other unpleasant objects can spoil what was otherwise a perfectly planned time.
    Take her hand: Holding a woman's hand while presenting the ring is a way of saying that this is a gift for her, as well as creating a natural connection between the couple through the ring, the ultimate symbol of their relationship.
    Getting off a bent knee: When you get up after answering the question, hopefully yes, the ring should be placed on the bride-to-be's finger and the next step is a kiss to seal the commitment, as a kiss traditionally seals wedding vows.

Deciding if it is right for you

For some couples, the idea of ​​a traditional wedding proposal with a bent knee is predictable and undesirable. In this casefall, there are more creative options, and even if the classic attitude of honor and respect is lacking, a thoughtful and romantic proposal will convey the same emotions, while keeping both feet on the ground and both knees straight.
Transfer your commitment

Whether you choose to make a wedding proposal on your knees or in a more creative, unique way, the key is that the traditional symbolism and connotations remain the same. Any proposal must express respect, honor and commitment to each other. When designing a proposal, make sure that it is something you are comfortable with and that your future wife will do the same.